1/17/09
The decision to choose a midwife was almost a no brainer for us. After we decided that we were ready to bring a child into the world, we immediately scoured the internet and book stores for books on birthing options. Everything that we read pointed us in the direction of a non traditional "American" birthing option--which is to have Baby Yu in a birthing center under the care and supervision of a Midwife.
I have to admit, even though I know this is the right choice for me and Baby it is a little difficult to follow a non conventional choice in this world of technology advancement and 3D & 4D Ultrasounds. Like many other new mothers, I immediately joined babycenter.com--August 2010 Expectant Moms Group to be exact. So many other woman that are due in August have already had their first prenatal visit, ultrasounds, etc, etc. I've met with my midwife, but will have my first prenatal visit this week--January 20th which will put me at 9 weeks, 6 days preggo....
So, why a midwife really? This may come off very bold, but I am not a "take a number" kind of person and really do expect personalized care during my pregnancy. I really do expect that my "catcher" be with me during the entire labor and not just at the end to literally catch the baby and collect the fat paycheck. I really do expect my care provider to get to know me over the course of the pregnancy. From what I've been told, labor is not easy, but I believe that I can have a better birth and pregnancy under the care of a midwife. I also don't agree with all of the non sensical pregnancy testing that traditional Doctors push. Honestly, if you know that you would not terminate the pregnancy, what do you plan on doing with the information??? Worry a little more than you already are over nothing you can control??
So...after some extensive research...we've decided to have Baby Yu at the Coastal Family Birth Retreat under the care of Midwife Valerie Jacques.
Check it out!!
http://www.coastalfamilybirthretreat.com/